Maturity?

I am evidently no longer considered a minor in any way now that I have just celebrated my 21st birthday. Not that it matters much considering that I never do plan on indulging in a drink, however it seems to be a huge milestone for some unknown reason. Perhaps it has to do with "maturity" seemingly looming for those who have chosen to spend the last four years in a drunken stupor in their sorority or frat houses. It seems as though once people turn 21, their priorities start to change, (for the most part, depending on who we are speaking of) almost as if they start to see how quickly age sneaks up on us.

I was surprised to learn that all of a sudden, when the number changes from a "teen" to a "twenty-something", People generally treat you differently. Tell me does the vast majority of the population believe that 16 year olds are so entirely different than 20 year olds? Do they really think that those 3-4 years make a huge impact on their lives, enough to change them so drastically as to make them adults? What experiences do they think they are having to give them the benefit of maturing? Completing high school? living away from mom & dad and attending college? REALLY? Is that the criteria? To earn maturity you must complete high school and attend college. Wow. Those are some very low standards.

What about having a job? Saving money? Learning how to handle Credit? How about being responsible? Whatever happened to responsibility? I suppose it is out of style. How sad. Now this is not to say that education is a negative, in many cases it is an extreme positive. However, why not teach our children to be responsible before sending them away to basically a Co-ed boarding school? How naive have parents been for the past decade to believe that their children have learned all the necessary skills they neglected to teach them.....at school?

I am sure that by the end of college many girls have changed quite a bit from their 16 year old selves, but for the better? I doubt if they hardly ever change for the better. And gained maturity............. ? Maybe, in the I've turned into an ice queen definition of the meaning. A good girl at 16 will usually turn into a cold hearted man hater, if left to her own devices during college. She will inevitably (this being the norm not the exception), drink, sleep with anything that gives her the faintest compliment to curry favor, and wake up in so many strange beds, that by the time she completes college, all she has left for her future husband is a college degree and no shred of dignity. She will lie about the "number" and try to fake being the fun, easy going girl she once was, even though she now carries more baggage than a bell boy. She will wait to settle, because career now has to be built, and then will wonder at the age of 35 about the lack of eligible bachelors. The good ones passing her up for the younger girls. She can't understand why they would pass her by...she has everything to offer.....she is a strong independent women, who is successful.
She foolishly still thinks she has youth and beauty, just because she has saved her body by remaining barren. She thinks youth and beauty is no more than appearance, and she truly believes - thanks to mainstream media that she is more beautiful now than she was at 20. But she is used and washed up and most men are not blinded by her pretenses of youth. She idolizes Carrie from sex and the city, and most men who will give her the time of day, fail to meet up to her golden standard of perfection. But around 40 she settles for a man who at 35, she would have turned down. She proceeds to cure her barren womb, and conceive a child, with help from a doctor of course. She then justifies her years of drunken, barren, singleness by telling herself that it was worth it, because she has a good career...she has something to fall back on when raising her one child becomes a bit too overwhelming. She proceeds to look down her wrinkled, sun spotted nose at all young wives and mothers because they do not have it all together the way she does. She truly is a frightful spectacle to behold!

There is a male version of this woman, But these sort of women are generally not created by men, they are created by our feminist society, telling women lies of the devil. Men do play a part, they can stand their ground, and be real men, instead of the Glorified sissies that the media constantly portrays as desirable. When I say real men, I mean honorable, good, trustworthy men of character, not some charade of Macho man who likes to treat women as doormats to wipe their feet on. (tho I will admit the modern woman is not worthy of much more, but this is cyclical) Nor do I mean men that let their wives control every aspect of their marriage, until they feel as if they are simply another child. No one likes a simpering idiot, who in his trying to please his wife out of love or laziness, lets her always have her own way. Women need to be thwarted in love a little.

This woman is what has become of our society, a self serving whore who does not give 2 shits about men. Modern women (with a few exceptions) have more expectation, less responsibility and no regret.

This is the reality of feminism.